A Good Old-Fashioned Spanking

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Hi Kim. I too went to college, 30 years ago now. I could have stayed in a dorm but one of my mother's friends knew of a single older lady who lived in the area and took in students. She was married but had no children. On the first day of my visit, we all hit it off great. Kate was very nice to me, and Denise and Kristie were a lot of fun to play with. Moreover, I thought Kate very pretty, and developed a crush on her almost immediately. Answer: Nervous for sure. Sometimes I may have a little bravado about the impending spanking, but the closer we get to the actual event, the more nervous I get. This is because I know that I’m in for a REAL DD spanking and what that feels like. When we were doing fun or sexual spankings, or spankings where I knew I could safeword out, I found those to be arousing. But that was because I was in control of stopping the pain as soon as it got to be too much for me. Now, I don’t give myself that option and just take what is given. So bending over the end of the bed (usual position for our domestic discipline spankings), bare butt, as she stands to the side with a harsh implement is a very daunting thing. And, unlike “fun” spankings, there are no light swats or warm up swats to start. From the moment the very first swat or lash lands, the pain is overwhelmingly present and continues to grow throughout the duration of the spanking. I don’t know why, but Stevie never got spanked by our parents. Mom would not even let me give Stevie a play spanking. Once I playfully swatted him two or three times in front of her and I was told: “ No – don’t you ever do that to him again!” In the beginning of our arrangement with our daughter, we were very much focused on correcting those aspects of Melanie’s behavior and attitude with which we were very familiar. So she found herself regularly taking a trip over my lap or her father’s knee until she learned to adjust. In those early weeks and months consistency was the key – and every single one of those spankings helped Melanie to achieve the correction in her attitude and conduct that we all desired.

I commented earlier, I started getting spanked after ten years of marriage. I've got it with his belt only a few times for more serious stuff. Wow it stings!

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Dad came out of the house and when he saw what we were doing, let out a firm: “No!” He walked over to us, gave me ‘the look’ and I knew I was in for a sore bottom. Sure enough, he grabbed me under my arms, put his leg up on the picnic table bench, placed me over his knee and gave me a very hard spanking. When Denise’s spanking was over and she returned to the spot where she had been standing, Kate looked at me and said: “Your turn, young man.” I was standing about 10ft away, but the walk to that bench felt like one of those dreams in which you are walking toward a destination but never get any closer to it. My head was spinning – I felt scared, embarrassed, and exhilarated, all at the same time. I wanted to share a story of a situation where both my younger brother and I learned from a good old-fashioned spanking. So…I’ve been asked a variety of questions around the topic of getting domestic discipline spankings and so thought I’d respond to them all here. Wipe the slate clean. After the punishment is issued, let them know they are on good terms. The Wrong Way Don’t Spank When Angry (Most of the Time)

Answer: Not at all. Again, this is consensual. I could tell her I don’t want to do it anymore but I have come to understand and appreciate its value…to me, to her, and to our relationship. There is so much trust and communication that is necessary when doing this kind of thing, that it has actually taken our love, trust, and intimacy to new levels. My wife wrote a great post about the benefits of having a spanking relationship with your husband, that highlights some great points regarding its ability to help eliminate tension between a couple. Authentic hand spanking on my very cheeky pert bare bottom .A very angry headmistress (wife) can and does apply punishment often and soundly .

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I got smart and said I may need a little spanking. He assured me if I didn't settle down I'd get a good spanking and I might get my ** whipped too! A bare-bottom spanking is effective because it makes the disciplinary experience for the naughty girl much more meaningful and memorable. So in taking Melanie’s panties down before a spanking, we are demonstrating our parental authority in a manner which is very positive and purposeful, with no qualms whatever about propriety. It is our duty as her parents to spank our daughter on her bare bottom and Melanie respects us all the more for so doing. I have found that appropriate disciplinary implements can be very useful tools, as they really do help me in my role as disciplinarian, to provide our daughter with creative and memorable chastisement. However it is important that the use of implements should be discussed in detail as part of the agreed arrangement between parents and their 18+ daughters. Toss it. A raised, irritated, or angry voice sends the wrong message – loss of control. That's when kids are most likely to test you, because they realize you're hooked and beginning to dance.

I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it. Her favourite implements include wooden jokari paddle,her hand,a slipper,a large ovel wood harbrush,bath brush,birch ,and a very thin whippy school cane.but her most favourite is actually the cane,which I have experienced on important discipline matters. And fully deserve,the strokes vary from 6 of the best but for more serious problems she administers a full 50 strokes tears flow sometimes and my bare bottom stings very much and throbbing,deep crimson,very,very sore indeed she often rubbs baby oil or cream to my tender cheeks during and after my spankings.Her methods are to administer a very authentic hard and long spankings just like my old headmaster administered I think he knew how much I wanted for him to bend me over his knee and administer a stinging Well, queue time lapse blur and here we are many, many moons later. We’ve evolved into a mutually and consensual agreement where she will give me a real domestic discipline spanking for offenses we’ve both deemed spank-able offenses. While I will get a punishment spanking on occasion (about monthly), I get taken to the “woodshed” about 3 or 4 times a year. Getting taken to the woodshed has become the name for getting THE (or one of the) worst spankings of my life. Our bedroom transforms into “the woodshed” for this type of spanking. And while she used to use just the razor strap, she then changed the protocol to be a belt spanking first (with her meanest belt), immediately followed by a razor strapping. There is no safeword during these spankings (although I imagine if I did say my safeword, she’d probably stop. BUT…that wouldn’t be a real spanking then, would it? 🤔 Besides, I agreed to be held accountable in this way and am man enough to take what she has deemed necessary by way of corporal punishment. Even if it means her reducing me to tears sometimes.)After our tenth date, my mother told me to wear only ** when we are in my room. And to lay in the bed, so he can touch me whenever he wanted, except the ** zone. I was home alone with him and we were again by the pool. Stevie absolutely refused to listen to anything I said. As Melanie’s mom, I am pretty much in charge of discipline on a day to day basis. But it was important to us as a couple that parental responsibility for our daughter was shared. So that Melanie could see clearly that both Mom and Dad were completely in accord when it came to disciplinary matters. So it was important that her father had a clearly defined role, even though he was busy with work for most of the week.